Allergies and Sick Child

I set up a table to sell my AVON, on Friday.  It was a teacher work day, so my kids didn’t have school.  My daughter came with me, and she lasted a couple hours before I had to call my husband to come get her.  He was off of work that day.  An hour later, he called me and said that our daughter was sick.  She was dehydrated.  He spent the rest of the day taking care of her.  She was better the next day, thankfully.

This morning, she was coughing and sniffling.  Her allergies were making her feel miserable.  I gave her some medicine, and had her go to school.  I’m staying close around the house today, just in case I get a phone call from the school.  The pollen is awful around here, and I’m surprised that the rest of us aren’t miserable from it.  My son and I have really bad allergies, too.

I tried something new with my AVON this weekend.  I made up an Easter Basket with 2 large bottles of the Jelly Bean Bubble Bath, and a basket with Footworks and Naturals.  I made a delivery to a customer at a doctor’s office, and took them with me to show the ladies.  One bought a bottle of Bubble Bath from the Easter Basket, and another bought the Footworks and Naturals basket.  The lady that bought the Bubble Bath was oohing and ahhing over the other basket, and said she would call me about doing up a couple for her.

I have to get some housecleaning done this week.  My kitchen and dining room look awful.  I also have AVON boxes stacked in both the living room and kitchen.  I’m surprised that my husband isn’t complaining.

This week is looking like it will be a lot easier for me.  I don’t have that many plans.  I’m going to take advantage of it by getting caught up with my computer work, and my housework.  I’ve also planned some new meals to try this week.  Last night, I made Chicken Fajitas.  They were great!  Of course, my husband had to find something to complain about.  There was no cheese.  He loves his cheese.  That didn’t stop him from eating several of the fajitas.  There were no left-overs.

Next weekend, it will just be me and my daughter.  My husband and son are doing a Boy Scouts camping weekend.  I need to plan some activities for a girl’s only weekend.  I’m looking forward to it.  We don’t get that many opportunities to just have fun together.  It will be nice to not have to worry about whether or not my husband and son want to do what we want to do.  We like to go to the stores and look at clothes.  They like to look at the stuff in the electronics department.  We like to take our time.  They are always rushing us.

April will be a busy month for us.  I intend to take advantage of this coming weekend, and relax and have fun.


Down 50 Pounds and Loving It

I’m so tickled.  I’ve lost 50 pounds total.  I did some shopping and was thrilled to see that I was out of plus size clothes.  I still have 20 pounds to lose, so I only picked up a couple of items.  I had no summer clothes that would fit, and I didn’t want to buy a lot of clothes that would be too big for me in a few months.  When I am down to the weight I want to be, I will post before and after pictures.

Now, for the not so good news.  I got my new cholesterol numbers.  I did improve, but not enough.  My doctor went up on the mg for my medicine.  I’m a little worried about that.  It’s up to 80mg.  I’m worried about side effects.  At my next appointment, she said that they will check several things when they take my blood, diabetes, liver and kidney functions.

I have been really careful about what I eat.  Unfortunately, I’m one of those people that has a bad family history of high cholesterol.  At least my numbers did show an improvement.  My good numbers went up, and my bad numbers went down.

I’m healthier than I have been in a long time.  I haven’t been down to this weight in years.  I don’t cringe when I look in a mirror.  I have more energy.  I am a lot more active.  I am looking forward to buying a new bathing suit in a couple of months.  I’ll keep you up to date on my progress.

My ABC News Interview

Katie Moisse, Health Reporter with, interviewed me for an article that was posted today. The article came about because of studies that show that autism moms have a lower income than moms without an autistic child. She wanted to interview actual moms, raising an autistic child, and find out how the studies relate to us.

I think that the only moms of an autistic child that didn’t see their income lowered, or eliminated, due to raising an autistic child, is a celebrity mom. I had to stop working. My family struggles to get by on my husband’s income.

During the interview, I addressed questions about my experiences raising my son. It was difficult. Even after all of these years, talking about the years before my son’s diagnosis rips at my heart. I was talking to a friend about it last week, and I was holding back the tears. I try to not look back. I try to focus on what is, and what could be.

Yesterday, we were out bowling, and there were several birthday parties going on. My son made his way over to one of them, and the mother of the birthday girl was trying to talk to him. I rushed over to him, and apologized. I quickly explained that he doesn’t talk, and that he was autistic. My son was pointing at a little bag of Doritos that was on the table. She told him he could have it, and I thanked her for her kindness.
Later, I looked around and saw that he was back over there. She was handing him a plate. My son came back to us, and sat at the counter. He had two slices of pizza and a bag of chips. I went over to her, and before I could say anything, she looked at me and smiled. She said it was no problem, they had plenty. I thanked her for being so kind to my son. I could feel the tears in my eyes, and I could tell that she noticed them. We exchanged a couple of words, and I returned to my family.

Our lives are not easy. We struggle with taking care of our autistic child. Moments like that, the kindness of a stranger, makes things a little easier.


Staying In The Goldilocks Room

I spent the weekend at the beach with my family.  It has become a family tradition to go to the aquarium for my son’s birthday.  We opted to spend the night at the beach this year, and give ourselves a break from doing all of that driving in one day.  During the off-season, it’s easy to get a room on the beach on Carolina Beach.

We stayed at the Dolphin Lane Motel, what looked like a nice, little place from the outside.  The inside was a different matter.  The rooms are outdated, and the floors were filthy.  My kids had black feet from walking barefoot in the room.  The worse part was the beds.  We started off with the kids in one bed, and my husband and I in the other.

Our bed was way too hard.  I wasn’t happy.  My husband said the other bed was softer, so I switched places with my son.  Immediately after laying down in the other bed, I said that the bed was too soft.  I could feel bed springs.  I was getting really frustrated.  My husband replied with a comment about it being a Goldilocks room.  In turn, (I couldn’t resist), I said “Where’s my bed that is just right?”

A few minutes later, I was extremely unhappy.  I started having a hot flash, and my daughter was cuddled up with me.  She’s a furnace.  I told her to scoot over.  Wasn’t happening.  My husband called her over to the other bed.  That put the three of them in a little bed, and me in one by myself.  Was I happy?  No.  I was hot, and laying on a very uncomfortable bed.  Note to self, do not stay at that motel again.

We didn’t let the motel ruin our weekend.  The aquarium was great.  We went on Saturday, and returned on Sunday morning.  Walking through the aquarium on Sunday was great.  There wasn’t anyone else there, we got in right when they opened.  My kids loved it.

We ate supper Saturday night at Buffalo Wild Wings, in Wilmington.  I love their hot wings.  Breakfast was at Kate’s Pancake House, in Carolina Beach.  Kate’s is one of our favorite places to eat on the strip.  The food and service is always good.  They have a nice selection of healthy meals for those who watch what they eat (like me).  And the prices are reasonable.

There wasn’t much else to do during our visit.  Except for the motel, we had a good time.

Beach Sand and Sea Shells Crafts

My daughter brought home what I thought was a bag of sea shells from her Kids By The Sea school field trip.  When I looked at it this morning, I realized that it was a bag of sand and shells.  I’m supposed to come up with an idea to display this small bag of sand and handful of sea shells.

There isn’t enough sand to fill a bottle.  I am thinking that a small canning jar would hold the sand and shells.  I know I can buy them at Wal-Mart in quantities of 6, but I don’t want 6 of them.  Hopefully, they will have some individual ones for sale.

What do you think?  Do you have any ideas of how I can display these?

Keeping Busy With The Family

You may have noticed that I didn’t post that often last week.  That’s because I’ve been so busy with my family.  My daughter went on a 3 day school trip to the aquarium today.  Last week, I had to do a lot of errands to get everything she needed for her trip.  Her school also sent home a note about needing a kite.  Finding a kite isn’t easy.  I went to several stores, and finally found one at Walgreens.

My sister came up from Florida for the weekend.  I needed to get all of my laundry done before the weekend.  When you have two kids, you have a lot of laundry.  I also had my AVON deliveries that I had to make, plus my visits to customers for their orders.  This week will be busy, too.  I have several appointments to go to this morning for my AVON business.  Tomorrow, I have   a dentist appointment and an appointment to get my cholesterol checked.  I’m so hoping that it will be lower.  I’ve been eating healthy, exercising, and taking my pills.  Most of the time.  I have to admit that I am bad at remembering to take my cholesterol pill everyday.

My son’s ear seems to be bothering him still.  He just finished up his antibiotic for his ear infection, and I don’t think it completely cleared it up.  I’ll talk to them at the doctor’s office tomorrow about getting him in at his ENT.  He might need tubes, again.  It would be his fourth set.  My son turns 13 tomorrow.  I can hardly believe it.  Raising an autistic child is challenging, but raising a teenage, autistic son is crazy.

I’m making this a short post, because I have to get ready for my meetings.  I’ll have time later to visit my blogging friends, and am looking forward to catching up on everyone’s weekend.